What is a Family?

I actually finished reading this book a month ago. (Okay, make that 2 months ago since this review has been sitting in the "draft" box for a few weeks!) The whole time I was reading it I thought of all these things I wanted to write about it and comment on. But as I said, it's a month stale so we'll see how this goes. Great book. Since being a wife and mother is my life's vocation, I enjoy books about family and raising children. Edith Schaeffer is one of a kind. By reading her insights and examples from her own family I developed an even greater respect and admiration for this woman. She gives a framework for understanding the dynamics of a family that leads you to really treasure the gift that a family is. I also found it inspiring that during much of her experience as a wife and mother she was actively involved in ministry, at times even living in community. She gives so much more than practical tips on how to put your family first. She highlights different aspects of the family dynamic as she answers the question "what is a family?" Just looking at the chapter titles you can get a glimpse. A family is: an ecologically balanced environment, the birthplace of creativity, a formation center for human relationships, a shelter in the time of storm, a perpetual relay of truth, an economic unit, an educational control, a museum of memories, and a door that has hinges and a lock. I must admit that I found the first introductory chapter to be a bit corny. But once I got past that I was won over. I appreciated the chapter "A Shelter in the Time of Storm." It dealt with the realities of life, those harsh realities at times and the ways a family supports its members. She also specifically addressed times of illness and the important role we play in a loved one's recovery. All throughout, the book is based on biblical principles. I was blessed by the wisdom of this remarkable woman and look forward to reading this book again down the road. I think I can honestly say it is on the list of books that have really impacted my life.

HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!